Monday, August 10, 2009

i wonder y we do stupid things at times....... n i do them all the time... u knw the most amazing thng about being stupid is that while u r being one u don even realise.... its smthng i did yesterday... a very immature n inconsiderate thing.... but i din realise it would hurt someone so much, when that someone happens to be the person i m crazily in love with....i feel like such a jack ass ..like i do nw.......
hmmmm...... so i try n set out to rectify my mistake, since it happened on the blog lemme try undoing it here.....
u knw at times we read more between the lines than what was actually conveyed..... the intensity with which u feel maybe isnt the same as felt by the other person.
its tough to justify my action , but trust me it is not worth ur precious emotions.... n i would never ever cause mental unrest to the person who means the world to me....... quite literally.....
i hope u can let this one pass... i m sorry for being so stupid.... this is probably the first n the last time, i promise....

11 comments:

Bernie said...

Hello Nupps, just came over from my favorite blog, Moments of Mine and was happy to see you are up and running again.
We all do things we wish we hadn't and when we realize it we do the best we can to reconcile the situation. You have apologized and wrote your apolozgy on your blog, not very much more left to do. Now you have to learn your lesson from all of this and forgive yourself, move forward and be the lovely person you can be.....Have a wonderful day.....:-) Bernie

Wanda said...

We do hurt the ones we love sometimes with our words or actions...but in the end if they really care and you sicerely apologize, things can be even better than before...We learn by making mistakes Nups...we all make them.
Keep in touch,
Wanda

Adisha said...

I'm sorry that your post cozed misunderstandings between u and your loved one.

I hope your other half realizes that you have no intention of hurting him and that your instant correction shows him how sorry you are ..

ps - I personally think your blog is your personal space and it's ok to write what you feel once in a while :)

Take care love,
catch u soon ...

Stillness Speaks said...

The very fact that you owned up to your mistake and didn't think twice about sincerely apologizing goes to show that whatever happened was truly unintentional. It takes a lot to put your ego aside and say "Sorry" and actually mean it. I am sure your love understands this and things will be back to normal real soon :) Never let misunderstanding come in the way of relationships. You've been very wise to not let this happen. A relationship means more than anything else. I am glad you are doing all in your capacity to undo the damage. Loads of love :)

Jack said...

Nups,

It is so maganimonious of you to offer your apologies on having committed an unintended hurt to your precious one. I am sure that person would understand and forget it. We do tend to read too much between the lines causing unnecessary misunderstandings. We need to look at things with more open mind.

Take care

Tranquility Speaks said...

This is Stillness Speaks and this
is my new address

nups said...

hey Bernie
thank u so much dear ... u r right.. i realized n i tried to undo wat i did... but u knw when someone hurts cos of our actions we feel like shit...
u keep visitng :) hope to c u arnd more often!

nups said...

hey Wanda
we learn by makig mistakes.. n i am prone to them :)
how have u been dear...

nups said...

hi Adi
u r right... i was troubled as hell.. but u knw i realised i love him to much to hurt him even a wee bit ... if i could i would have grown wings to fly n apologise in person to him.... well he is kind he din hold it against me for too long :)

nups said...

hey Stillness
i hope u don mind me addressing u this way still... hw come a change of name.. its good though :)
yup babes it takes a lot to say "sorry" but we must learn to say it often n mean it too...

nups said...

Jack
u r right buddy :) thanks for being so wonderful... hope u doing good