m back after a long journey which was quite a drainer..... to a distant town in south India where i wouldn have ventured had it nt been required by my accademics.... and wat a journeyit was..... draining me emotionally and physically.......
i wonder sometimes if we take things more seriously than we ought to... do we try to keep everybody happy... do we try to give justifications where people don even care but we stil do cos we don wana cause any ripples in the water.......
it hurts when people misunderstand u.... but then its best to let go cos not every body cares for ur explanationa and when people arent close enough how does it matter what they think.
At the end of the day wat we need to nw i guess is.. as long as we r clear in our conscience it doesn matter wat others think and sometimes we can yel at the top of our voices but no one cares to listen........
so the moral of the story is to make peace with urself.... and leave the world wiht their own mucky thinking ... we cant reprogramme it so jus let it be and not get affected by it!
easier said than done ...... i hope i can stay disconnected too..... thats the only way i can get my peace....
3 comments:
To begin with, I'd like to thank you for having taken the time to comment on my post. We know it better than anyone else how much each comment means :-)
Quite agree with your views. We can please some people all the time, all people some of the time, but not all people all the time. As long as we are acting logically and causing no one mental/physical/emotional harm, we're ok. What makes a huge difference to us, might be utterly inconsequential to others. So live, and let live!
a great post. I think that we have to separate our "stuff" from other peoples "stuff" and deal with what we can. Assist those who want help or inspiration and let others walk their own journey.
My friend is traveling in India now... She'll be there for 3 weeks in total.. i'm so jealous!
thanks to Stillness speaks and My life scape!
my latest post is quite a contrast to the one u guys commented on.. cos i let a skunk of a person spoil my peace of mind i was terribly disturbed...
so all the more reason to reiterate the value of being at peace with oneself and not letting the world ruin it so easy...
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