Thursday, May 7, 2009

day one :)

hmm... long time! i was too caught up in a few worldly things like Exams! which kept me away frm my passion of sorts these days.... yup its my blog :) i joined the blog marathon(nablopomo.ning.com)  last night n i hope i can keep at it... churn out some good posts here .....
well... theres this thing i realised tat some of my previous posts have been quite on the heavier side i guess i need to blog often when m all happy n gay :) n not jus when life is getting a bit tough to handle...hmmm... shall keep tat in mind
anyws ... i did a good thing today ... i caught up with an old friend :) wonder how we jus move on and leave a few threads behind ... entangled  n all jus there like a spiders web... making the past look like a haunting old tomb of hidden memories....  hmmm.. spooky hhuuh... u bet...
personally i hate advancing in life without resolving old issues... if i have it my way i would reach back to all n every situation which maybe i could set right.. wounds i may heal better now...situations which i could better justify now.... i don like people carrying emotional burden 
far too long than its really required! 
i am lucky to be able to move on after a blow ... it doesn take me too long to dust off n start all over again... i don give up till i find wat i m looking for and don settle for anythng but the best..guess tat helps to keep moving on .... hmmm.... but then theres this breed of people ..like my friend.... who jus wana stay stuck... they hang on to the pain, the anger... are not ready to forgive n kinda make life a living hell..... i so tried making sense to him... tat things happen for a reason ...in life we cant live with blinkers (only horses look good in them) and percieve things as how they appear...u HAVE to look at the bigger picture... the canvas of life is greater than we think it is.... NO ONE can make or break it...most of it is in our hands and much if it is pre ordained.... so why keep grudges n stay stuck..life Will pass u by..... its scary loosing ur life over past which cant be undone.....  i spent 2 hrs convincing him.... but each to his own finally n i cant do anythng more for him! sigh....  
anyws.... i have a few good stuff in my kitty :) for the blog marathaon :) n am i excited ?! u bet i am :) 

6 comments:

Wanda said...

That friend should live and learn from mistakes...forgive and forget...Life is mostly what you choose it to be and too short to waste time complaining or being miserable...Smile and Take Care!

Jack said...

Nups,

Wish you all the best for this marathon. One has to move on though it may be quite difficult most to the times but there is no use in fretting. Write what comes in you mind and do not think it being heavy or anything like that.

Not seen you in my space for sometime now. There are few new post where I would like to see your views.

Take care

Stillness Speaks said...

Things happen. Some that we like. Some that we don't. If we don't make a move, like you said, living becomes a misery. People take time realizing it. You did your bit. As and when it hits your friend, he will start afresh too.

nups said...

hi Wanda
u r right ... its all abt. letting go... and moving on . tough one but one's gotta learn !!

nups said...

hi jack
yup its been a while since i visited u ..i had exmas so jus gettin back to life :)
will do soon .. take care :)

nups said...

hey Ms stilnness
yes my friend.. u r right shit happens :) and almst alws we have to make a choice if we wana sulk or smile..its so bloody hard the choice na at times..but my dear...yeh zindagi hai karna padta hai... ladna padta hai :)